Fear is a feeling difficult to put into words, but easily understood when felt.
Just before going to sleep on Friday, November 13th, I saw a newsflash pop up on my iPad. Something about attacks in Paris. I didn't want to believe France, my home for the last 15 years, might be going through another wave of terrorist attacks, like those that took place in January. Boy was I wrong. The attacks were worst than in January.
The next day, just after waking up I discovered how bad the events were: a friend in the US messaged me asking how I was? I live very far from Paris in the French Alps. So to me, this signaled how bad the situation was. Turning on the TV, I realized the devastation: 130 people dead, and hundreds injured. As of this writing many are still hospitalized.
If anything good came out of the attacks it was surely how the French (and the world) pulled together. Like in January, the worst brings out the best. Like at Wembley Stadium, the heart of English football, decked out in the colors of France before a football (soccer) match, the crowd singing La Marseillaise. As though 1000 years of animosity (and often war), was erased. That's exactly what occurred on November 17th a few days after the attacks in Paris.
It was also heartwarming to hear La Marseillaise sung in so many accents and the French flag appearing on social media. But I think, it's also important to remember other terrorist incidents this year. The day before the Paris attacks, there was a suicide bombing in Beirut and a few days later bombings in Nigeria.
After the attacks I was asked about traveling to Paris. My advice, do what you feel comfortable with. If you go to Paris and worry about something happening, then it's not going to be a good trip. Stay home. If on the other hand, being in Paris in light of recent events isn’t too distracting, go. Really how you feel is most important. I also added that
in terms of statistics, you're more likely to be killed or injured at home than in a terrorist attack. I don't know it if this makes someone feel any better but, to me it helps pick events into perspective. Just like there's more chance of an accident happening traveling to the airport, than on the plane.
Tourism in Paris, has dropped since the attacks. After November 13th the French government added 1,500 military troops to help with security. Anyone visiting Paris is likely to see more police and soldiers than usual. In terms of petty crime, it actually might be safer, with the extra security. Less chance of being pickpocketed, than in the past. On that subject here's a good series of public safety videos.
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